The dictionary defines wrath as "strong, stern, or fierce anger; deeply resentful indignation; ire." For me at least, the word 'wrath' conjures up an image of vengeful anger being directed at one who has offended the person exhibiting wrath. When used for myself or other humans, that seems to be an adequate description. And it does seem to be descriptive of God as he is pictured in the Old Testament, destroying the world with a flood, pouring out fire and brimstone on Sodom and Gomorrah, zapping anyone who touches the Ark inappropriately and many other examples. But I really see no support for that in the New Testament, and it is contrary to how I understand the nature and purpose of God.
I will be the first to admit that I have a tendency to view God through the lenses of my own nature; and I son't believe that I am not alone in doing that. I know that is somewhat dangerous because it can produce an incorrect picture of God. But I don't know that it is possible for me to separate how I see God from how I am. I know that some of my more emotional friends can see God sitting on a mountain top hurling thunder bolts at those who offend him. But I struggle with that; I have a hard time picturing God as being vindictive.
The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of people, who suppress the truth by their wickedness - Romans 1:18 NIV
5 But because of your stubbornness and your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against yourself for the day of God’s wrath, when his righteous judgment will be revealed. 6 God “will repay each person according to what they have done.” 7 To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor and immortality, he will give eternal life. 8 But for those who are self-seeking and who reject the truth and follow evil, there will be wrath and anger. 9 There will be trouble and distress for every human being who does evil: first for the Jew, then for the Gentile; 10 but glory, honor and peace for everyone who does good: first for the Jew, then for the Gentile. 11 For God does not show favoritism.Paul clearly teaches that the wrath of God is real and is directed at godlessness and wickedness. But it seems just as clear that it is not something that is visited upon the offending party when their actions cross some threshold. Rather, there is a day of judgement coming when we will receive either eternal life or experience God's wrath.
Romans 2:5-11 NIV
It seems better, at least to me, to think of God's wrath in terms of deserved punishment rather than anger directed at the offender; that removes the emotional component from the equation and leaves righteous judgement in its place. Those who do good are rewarded, while those who do evil experience punishment.
What is that punishment? While many will disagree, it seems clear to me from the scriptures that there is some period of torment for those being punished, but that period is followed by destruction. In fact, that is the fate that Paul claims awaits those who experience God's wrath, rather than an eternal conscious torment.
What if God, although choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath—prepared for destruction?As I understand it, the wrath of God is the final judgement against unbelievers and evil doers; their complete and total destruction. It is not the action of an offended, angry or vengeful God. It is a reasonable and rational outcome for those who have failed to live up to God's purpose for their lives.Romans 9:22 - NIV